I have had the Revival 65 now for 3 months and I have put it through its paces on 3 trips this year. I have liked the pack so far. The claims about keeping your back cool are absolutely true, best pack I have ever owned in terms of back sweat control. I mostly use this pack when I am carrying gear for 2 or extended trips and have had it loaded up to 45lbs…yikes! I think if needed you could easily carry 50 no problem. I looked at all the packs you mentioned and picked this one out of the bunch. Like you said the gregory was the most comfortable but the weight and price was just too much.
The only thing that bugs me about the pack is the hip belt. Sometimes it just feels a little uncomfortable because it is not a solid piece of foam. It is made of a few sections which allows it to conform to your hips but can also create some pressure points.
The back panel is very confortable even though it looks weird with the different sections. The frame is very good at moving all the weight to your hips and makes for a great carry with the exception of the hip belt at times.
This pack is no lightweight, but much lighter than the aether and baltoro. If you are not going to be carrying more than 35 lbs I would look for a lighter pack. If I am solo and sticking to my new ultralight standards, I use a Golite Jam.