It was indeed a community center – it was in the center of a small town on an island. I worked there for 8+ years. The kind of place where everyone came to it – cops, lawyers, judges, EMT workers, hospital employees, the teachers – even the homeless guys who lived in the woods outside of town.
I had one long time customer who people were often rude to, he had severe mental health issues and received a disability check once a month (he was also homeless). I'd let him slide all month and let him come in and drink black coffee all day and often saved him pastry items that would be tossed (they were still very edible!). He'd never bother anyone and sit quietly in the corner (for being homeless he was very clean) or on the patio in the warmer months. And once a month he would settle up his debt for his coffee (although I gave him quite the discount). He "payed" me back in other ways though by being very loyal and helping me around the shop.
At the same time I was nearly held up one morning a little after opening by a stranger – who I guessed thought it would be an easy roll…the coffeehouse was full of "old men" and no young people. Some of those old men were plain clothes detectives ;-) The other ones were old farmers who didn't much like strange folk..lol! That is community I can tell you! Hah!
But community…when the Seattle earthquake happened my customers helped me get everything back in order once the earth quit shaking. When I had my oldest son people I knew by drink, not name, showered me in help.
And I will never forget 9/11 when we had the TV on but no sound and the shop was full of scared people just sitting together. Many parents went to the school across the street and took their children out – and came over – to simply be with other humans and not be alone.
I miss community I can tell you that. My time on the island changed me indeed….and nothing compares to it. The Doctor that delivered Ford over 13 years ago recently saw my brother and asked how we were doing – I'd never get that where I live now!