UL Tent Advice/Suggestions!

Mark check your PMs.

I love my Contrail. I've considered the Moment, but hear a lot about condensation issues. I was turned off by The One simply because I'm not all that keen on spinnaker-tear strength, noisy, etc. Though many people have them and the general consensus seems to be that The One is a great shelter. The Lunar Solo seems like a great tent similar to the Contrail in many ways, but is side-entry; a plus in my book.
And if you don't want to buy/use trekking poles you could always purchase ~2oz pole for the Contrail, The One and the Lunar Solo (no poles needed for the Moment).
But if you want to go really light you could look into Z-packs Hexamid with netting. The Hexamid plus a ground sheet would come in at a mere 10oz. Add a door to it for even more rain/wind protection and you have yourself a cuben, bug proof, storm-worthy shelter at only ~11oz (including a ground cloth).

Both of these require trekking poles:

for three season in the NE I would add the cuben lightheart gear solo awning if you have the $$$. Nice double walled shelter with good bug/rain protection at around 14oz

My notes about ultralight shelters

–Mark

Even the non-cuben Lightheart Solo is very comparable to the other tents mentioned if you don't want to shell out the bucks for the cuben fiber one.

My current choice is a SMD Wild Oasis. I've used in buggy, wet, windy and light snow conditions and have found no faults with it. My previous tent was a Tarptent Rainbow which is also a great tent but the 14oz. Wild Oasis called my name.
I hiked with someone who had a Wanderlust Nomad which is the original of the Lightheart Solo. The problem my friend had and what may be a consideration for you is the size of it. At 8' by 11' it requires a fairly large space to set up.