"What I'd like to see is some kind of contraption that will allow my AA / AAA battery chargers to charge CR123 batteries."
You can kinda, sorta do it, with a purpose-built charger and RCR123 cells. And Steripen sells a version of their Adventure Opti with two RCR123s and a solar charger/storage box. Since the Meridian Design mUV charges its internal RCR123 directly from any 1.5V battery, it shouldn't be difficult to replicate the mUV circuitry as a tiny, standalone module but I'm not sure what would be gained as a result (considering one would have to carry main batteries and charging batteries).
I'll add Li-ion cells aren't "magical" in terms of how much power they store (measured in mAH) but their base voltage, light weight and low-temperature performance do make them attractive. NiMH cells are easier and safer in about all aspects, but are heavier and put out lower voltage.
Cheers,
Rick