Regarding 900 vs 800 fp down. Yes, there is some inconsistency in the information available. Yes there are different testing standards between the US and Europe. However, that issue is mostly irrelevant unless you're comparing Euro brands and US brands.
Plain and simple, I've worked with many many lbs of 800 and 900fp, I have both on hand. There is a tangible difference between them, and I wont get into details, but in some ways, it's contrary to the accepted wisdom.
I've switched to using 900fp exclusively in my quilts. I calculate on a baffle by baffle basis, LxWxTarget Loft H/900×28, and measure on two scales each time, which are accurate to 1/10th gram.
All of my quilts meet or exceed expected loft. I don't hedge heavily. I don't add 20% extra(or even %5), etc. I do err on the side of a little extra, but it's always less than half a gram per baffle. Most if not all of my customers feel my quilts meet or beat the target temp rating.
All down is not created equal, there are so many variables, and so many vendors, but the 900 I use, definitely beats any of the 800 I've seen(all US testing standards). The proof is in the loft, and the final weight.
I can't comment on the 950fp.
As to the issue of Blast Packs, the OP seems to have a misconception that they're not durable? Any blast pack would likely last the career of an average hiker. Many nylon packs look like total trash after a thru, and the Blast packs seem to be consistently making that mark.
Cuben has it's quirks like every fabric, but it's here to stay, and it's made a significant and positive impact on the sport.
Just my 2c.