Lots of good comments so far. Here's my two cents.
Late July and early August will have heavy mosquitoes this year, so plan your gear accordingly.
NeoAir-short pad (lighter and oh so comfy)
You mention cell phone to keep your wife happy. It is more likely to make her anxious, because you'll rarely if ever be able to use it to call her and she might think you forgot about her. Two options to reassure her: Spot Tracker; ask exiting hikers to send her an email. You won't need a cell phone at the end of the trip to get picked up, because there will be 100 other people in the Whitney Portal parking lot and most of them will loan you a phone (if there is reception) or give you a ride down to Lone Pine.
You'll never be >1 hour between water sources, so you don't need that much capacity.
I, too, would skip the filter and use Betadine or Aqua Mira.
Similar to other comments, you don't need that much clothing.
2 pairs socks, or 3 if you want a pair for sleeping.
long johns, shorts, rain pants
warm weather hiking shirt (you call "sun shirt")
zip turtleneck base layer
windshirt
one insulating layer on top (Montbell Thermawrap or WMFlash jacket or Cocoon or equiv.)
rain coat or wrap or poncho or whatever
light gloves, one warm hat/balaclava, visor
Good luck have a great trip.