I don't know about national BSA policy, but yes my troop says the pledge of allegiance to the flag, which mentions "under God". So does my Rotary club. I have heard a prayer or two in our activities, but not very often.
Our troop leader (scoutmaster) is chosen by the parents who are on the troop committee. The BSA doesn't have any idea whom we select. I can't think of any scout parents in our troop who are homosexual, so its not really an issue. We don't recruit outside the troop for scoutmaster. Not having a homosexual scoutmaster is the least of my worries, and not even a particular goal of mine.
Scouts is a great way to get kids out in the outdoors. We have a coed Venture crew also. They do whatever kinds of trips the kids want to do. I know they are going to a BSA scuba camp in Florida, and plan to climb Mt. Borah this summer. They did a 50 miler in Canyonlands over Spring break.
I'd check into Venture crews for a fun outdoor group for girls. Be careful, she'll probably have to say the pledge of allegiance and won't have homosexual leadership. Are there a lot of homosexuals wanting to be scoutmasters of boy scout troops?

