OK so I have the Spider also. I saw this a long time ago so I am careful to keep the threads tight all around.
The second pic where the stove is more yellow is what mine does. It burns normally but after 5min (?) the flame kinda sucks down through the mesh or something and it makes a 'wet gurgling' sound. There will be no real visible flame above the head, and the head will glow yellow.
If I turn the gas up it gets louder but remains the same.
If I turn the gas down so its almost off the flames will slowly creep back up the the top like its supposed to be, albeit on extra-low power.
It happens with a 2 liter pot. It happens with my BPL550 mug.
WTF?
Is the mesh too big? Again, I make sure all the threaded parts are tight. Its not a windscren holding up all the heat like David Drakes Giga ("jordan" windscreen)cause it happens with the little 550.
I've just been turning down the power and it fixes itself as long as I keep the power on low.
Its a remote can so I am not woried about blowing up, it makes me nervous though.
thoughts?
EDIT- Jerry you can help too!! :P