Here's the load most of them will be carrying:
Personal gear:
32-40 degree bag
1/2-3/4" foam pad (Walmart), cut to height of scout
200 wt fleece jacket or longsleeve baselayer or nothing (depending on temps)
Nylon windbreaker jacket
1 pair nylon (track) pants or nylon shorts (depending on temps)
1 poly longsleeve (baselayer) or t-shirt (depending on temps)
1 liter gatorade or 2 1/2 lier aquafina bottles
1 plastic bowl, cup, spoon, hand sanitizer (smallest)
headlamp, small knife, 4 bandaids, 6 blister patches toothbrush, toothpaste (travel)
poncho or dryducks rainsuit
2 pr underwear (wicking), 2 pr socks (thorlo, etc)
liner gloves, knit hat, booney hat, sunglasses (depending on temps & location (booney hat and sunglasses not needed in woods))
Small piece of painter's plastic to sit on during lunch etc when the ground is wet (frequently)
The scouts will need to double the water volume carried in the summer, but less warm clothes will be needed.
Shared gear:
1/2 of 8×10 tarp and net tent (similar to Ray-way)
Share of dried food (instant oats, lipton sides, granola bars, etc)
1/2 of pocketrocket, 1.5 liter pot, fuel cannister, matches
1/4 of compass, maps, aquamira
Shared gear gets divided up as a percentage of the scout's body weight, so smaller scouts carry less, but everyone gets penalize "fairly" if they overpack.
Currently the best choice for packs appears to be the REI flash 50 since they can try it on for fit locally and it's advertized as 2 lbs without the lid or framesheet. I've tried it in the store with 30 lbs and a foam burritto frame, and it seemed to work OK. It's $149 though, and I was thinking there might be some better options. And it's NOT adjustable.
Also, I've never found any of the external frame packs to be comfortable, so I'm extremely hesitant to recommend them.