I have all three sizes of Exos packs and love 'em.
I am a hot hiker and sweat a lot. The Exos keeps me cooler so I don't start as fast, sometimes not at all. I disagree with Lynn in as much as hot foam touching my back has to be hotter than mesh.
The gap that is mentioned so often about this style of pack is pretty much nonexistent now. They do not have as pronounced a separation. Once your pack is loaded the weight settles the suspension and you end up with only a small space.
Now before the haters start with how that throws the center of gravity off, take your foam back-panel pack. Yeah, the cool model with air-channels to transfer heat away. Measure the space in those channels. I bet it is just as deep as the space on my Exos. Now add whatever foam is between the channel and your load and you may have MORE space between you and your load, throwing off the center of gravity even more than the Exos.
That's my take on it. My Brother-in-law just got the new Talon 44 and it looks very nice with the new mesh back, plus adjustable torso which the Exos does not have.