"Interesting, and not quite what I was expecting. What would be a good soft shell material for wet snow?
I should say that I am in the Cascades, so 35 with heavy wet snow is pretty common."
Hmmm. I'm not sure here…
My experience has been in New England winters, and soft shell works there. If you're saying that you'll be continuously exposed to snow just above freezing, then it might be better to use hard shell, at least in the legs. Soft shell fabric is highly wind and water resistant, but not *proof, so at some point you would expect some water penetration. Of course, as long as you're moving it shouldn't be an issue, but I've never tried to do any actual test to see how early and how much it would fail. Perhaps someone with experience with these conditions can comment. If it's just occasional exposure, then I'd still stick to a soft shell.
My hiking buddy uses and swears by Buffalo Systems clothing. It's made for damp UK conditions, and while some moisture may penetrate, it's never enough to cause problems as long as he's moving, because the garment has enough insulation to keep him warm, and the moisture generally moves to the outside of the garment and evaporates.
As to specifically which fabric, there are enough options to make my eyes glaze over…
From my point of view, there are least two categories of soft shell, lined and unlined. The lined soft shells have some kind of insulating liner on the inside to provide warmth and to absorb any moisture that might penetrate the garment. Essentially, one garment does the work of several ones. Personally, I tend to use the unlined ones, and use it with a base layer appropriate to the conditions.
My winter soft shell pants are the heavier MontBell ones. They've been comfortable though anything I've thrown at it. For typical cooler three season wear I shift to their lighter pants, with equally good result.