"By the way, I do my fair share of bush whacking. I disagree with the implication that a 2+ pound pack can handle off trail trekking any better than my pack at less than half the weight."
In terms of durability, I would agree. I am not sure anyone said that except that generally speaking, a more durable fabric weighs more.
"Even if you redistribute the weight so it's balanced front and back, your legs are still carrying more weight than they're built to handle and you'll feel it."
Yes your legs are still carrying it but now your back (or other parts of your body) isn't. For a pregnant woman with the majority of the weight in front, the back does part of the lifting. For woman who have twins (like my wife) the effect is even greater on the back not only because there is more weight in the front, but also because the weight stuck out from the body much further, adding to the effect of 'weight' on the body. I found that by strapping a 20 lb backpack on her, she felt less strain on her lower back (no, not really).

