OK here's my vote…
Get a GSI bugaboo pot. The non-stick really works… you can easily do pancakes and whatever you want. I've had mine for quite a few years now and it works a treat. There are few reviews on backpackgeartest you can read and they are all very positive too.
The base is nice and thick and cooking is very even.
Here's the catch. You have to buy the bugboo pot (or alternatively the 'hard anodized extreme' version) in a set of two pots. I think it's about $30 for both, and they both come with frying pan lids.
# Large pot: 7.5 oz (212 g)
# Small pot: 5.4 oz (152 g)
Don't be fooled by the "official" volume of these pots (supposedly 1.4L and 0.95L). I own an evernew 1.3L pot and it is exactly the same volume as the GSI small pot. It appears that GSI significantly underestimates the capacity of their pots, or perhaps doesn't measure them exactly to the brim. I reckon the GSI small is about 1.3L and the large is about 2L.
So when you compare the small GSI pot to the Evernew non-stick, it's actually a bit lighter and works much better. Note though that the weight doesn't include the lid (which acts as a separate frying pan, and so is much heavier than a normal lid). Unless I'm doing real gourmet cooking I just leave the lid behind and use some foil or something.
Lastly, the GSI pots have a much underappreciated feature that you hardly find on any other pots… a spiral turned base. The base has a series of ridges etched into it in concentric circles, meaning that it does not slide around when you put it on a stove.
Anyway, check it out. These pots are the bees-knees and I suspect the only reason we don't hear more about them is because most folks are just boiling water and using an uncoated pot (which of course is lighter).