Brad,
I have been talking to Rand from Trail Designs and learned a lot. Here is what probably happened.
First off, 95% everclear isnt completely clean. You can see this by the yellow flame when you burn it out in the open. I think what happens is there are so many alcohol fumes being emitted that it prevents enough oxygen from entering the reaction causing incomplete combustion leaving soot.
In my case, I also didn't use the rubber ring to keep the pot higher in the caldera cone. Im pretty sure what happened is that combining the everclear (that starves itself of oxygen) with a really low pot in the caldera cone which pushes even more oxygen out of the area, causes much of the fuel to not combust completely as well as jump out the sides of the cone in search of more oxygen.
Those two factors combined turned the inside of my cone into a firestorm. It got extremely hot and started melting the rubber ring.
I am going to try adding some water to it to slow the burn down a little and elevate the pot out of the cone more.
My problem is that the alcohol stove with everclear emits a flame that is about 1 foot high and I think the most efficient way to heat a pot is to use the tip of the blue flame where it is hottest. This means I will be effectively resting the pot on the cone if I can. (unless adding water reduces the height of the flame)
I am for the most part speculating so if any of you think I might be mistaken please let me know.
Thanks again to Rand and trail designs for all the help. Once I get this all figured out, this thing is going to be very light, and burn clean and very fast. I boiled 2 cups of water in 4 mins with the firestorm technique. haha