After relocating to N California, my wife and I are looking forward to some road trips to explore the West. While far from the purview of ultralight backpacking, I've been getting very good advice on my car camping tents and tarps thread. For car camping, our priority is comfort.
My wife and I tend to be side sleepers and sprawlers, though my wife can be a backsleeper super sprawler. At 5 ft 6 and 130 lbs, by middle of the night or morning she can still somehow wind up covering a huge part of the area of a bed. Think jumping jacks configuration with arms stretched sideways.
For backpacking, we're going to go with 20 in. NeoAir mattresses when they come out and/or foam pads. This could work just as well for car camping if on the ground, though on cots they'd leave arms hanging uncomfortably down.
For car camping, we've tried a cheap thick inflatable queen camping mattress bought through REI-Outlet, which has one big drawback – everytime one of us moves or gets up, the other gets bounced.
Is there a good larger couples camping mattress out there that's very stable, or that has 2 separate compartments, one for each side?
Would you recommend separate inflatable mattresses, like Therm-a-rests deluxe or camp rest (whatever called now) side by side, or NeoAir Deluxe 25 in. models side by side?
Anyone recommend cot + air mattress so you can be comfortably elevated and sit with your feet on the ground?

