As long as you are comparing a good batch of sil-nylon (not a batch that mists through easily) I'd stick with the following recommendations:
If budget is most important, sil-nylon is much cheaper, usually more durable, and the weight really isn't that much different.
If you are in a very wet area, try to buck for the spinnaker, it's stretches less which can make for less getting up in the night to adjust guy lines.
If you prize light weight above all, save up for cuben otherwise your likely to want to "upgrade" later.
If you are in primarily windy areas and are a light sleeper, bring ear plugs if you go spinnaker. There's not much getting around the fact that it's significantly louder for the first several seasons of use. Mine seems to have gotten a bit quieter after a couple years, but is still louder than sil-nylon.
If you are rough on gear, sil-nylon doesn't have any durability issues and is easily patched.
If you want to go spinnaker, it's hard to go wrong with the SpinnTwinn. It weighs like a solo sil-nylon with room for 2+gear. It is a very well designed tarp. Aside from the noise, I couldn't ask for much more in a tarp. When used solo it's like a palace with plenty of coverage to drop the sides for spin-off snow protection or blowing rain. There isn't a lot to be gained by decreasing your coverage with a spinnaker shelter.
If you want a solo sil-nylon, there are lots of good options, but it very possible to make your own. There are lots of patterns out there and it's a decent beginner project.