Jim,
I just made the jump from a tarptent to poncho tarp/bivy this year.
With my limited experience, here are my answers:
1. Mine does have a bug net built into it…have not had to zip it up to defend myself from bugs yet. On my last trip, I did not even bother to zip up my bivy. Loved the freedom of basically sleep out under the stars. (I also cary a head net for use on the trail)
2. I have never staked out my bivy. I stuff a lot of my gear into the head space of the bivy above me for storage. When I setup camp, I slide my pad and sleeping bag into the bivy with the other stuff, so blowing away would take a lot…like a storm.
3. Purchased mine…Mountain Laurel Designs. See my review/impressions of the Soul Side Zip with eVent top. (13 oz rounding up)
4. eVent, but then again, this is my 1st bivy.
5. I opted for the "heavier" 2.0 silnylon bottom on mine, but am sure that the regular 1.3 silnylon bottom would be fine. Nice thing about a bivy is that you can setup anywhere. As with any light weight shelter, site selection is important. I have slept out on gravel/sand/granite. I cleared the spot under my bivy of the big rocks that might have poked a hole in the bottom of the bivy.
6. Being that this was my 1st bivy, I opted for all the options to make mine "bomber". If I were to change one thing, I would opt to not have the 1.3 oz wire for the hood part of the bivy. I find that I use the guyline loop that is built in to tie the hood to the ceiling of my tarp to pull it off my face. The wire helps out if I don't pitch the tarp and sleep out under the stars. In that case, I have used my poles in a "X" above me and tied my bivy hood to my poles for the same effect. Wire is not necessary. I might have gone with the standard bottom material vs. the heavier/stronger bottom.
Check out Ron at Laurel Mountain Designs.
Can not say enough good things about Ron's customer service and workmanship.
My buddy also has one of Ron's bivies and either talked to Ron on the phone or emailed him for his advice on which bivy to buy for CA./Sierra.
Ron recommended the least expensive one that he makes.
Mine is probably the most expensive one, but I am paranoid about rain/water. :)
Hope that helps you out.
-Tony