Hello,
I'm currently trying to settle on a good wife-friendly backpacking tent. By wife-friendly, I mean, no bugs.
I first tried a Tarptent Squall 2. After a test run in an area with tons of granite (Cherry Creek in Emigrant Wilderness), I discovered you can't very well drive four tent stakes into granite. And I wasn't about to spend an hour moving rocks around so I could guy it out! I need to have my tent up and running in 5 minutes, without moving boulders and such. So I slept under the stars, and the clouds of mosquitoes, and the Squall 2 went back. Too bad, it was really well-constructed, and it was a pleasure dealing with Henry Shires.
My second choice was the Big Agnes Seedhouse SL 2, which I purchased at REI because of their return policy and my pickiness. I love the quick setup, the all-mesh design, and the non-obtrusive coloring. I absolutely love this tent. In a test run at Rancheria Falls in Hetch Hetchy last weekend, where it was into to 100's for a few days, we really appreciated all the mesh. However, I'm 6'5", which means my sleeping pad is long (ProLite 4 long) and my bag is long (Marmot Helium +15 long). There was no way for me to situate in this tent without having the bottom of my sleeping bag pressed into the tent wall. All the mesh in the world isn't going to prevent a sleeping bag situated in this fashion from getting wet due to overnight condensation. There was not enough width for me to curl up without kneeing my wife, and I can't guarantee that I won't end up laying flat in the middle of the night without realizing it. Indeed, in the morning, the foot of the bag was wet. Not terribly wet, but not bone dry, and for the price of this tent, it's going back to REI tomorrow. In my experience, if you are tall enough to have a long sleeping bag, and you sleep flat on your back, then the bottom of your sleeping bag will get wet in this tent, period. The two 6'3" guys who reviewed this tent on BackpackGearTest and were beside themselves due to its spaciousness must have been camping on another planet ( http://www.backpackgeartest.org/mfr_reviews/Big%20Agnes ).
So tent #3? I'm going to try the SL3. As I said, I absolutely love the design of the SL2, but it's just not tall enough. The SL3 is 6" longer, and a good bit wider, which hopefully does the trick. It's a little heavier too, but not by too much. I'll just make my wife carry it.
Thanks for listening to my rants.
-Jeff