Sounds like you are looking for a wp/b bivy. I would recommend going with eVENT, but having a shelter option for when it's too hot and humid for the bivy. For example, you could combine a bivy with the SMD Wild Oasis. This is a shaped tarp, which should minimize spray from the sides, and it has full bug netting. This way you can just use the bivy on clear nights, or stake out the tarp for a protected zone from mosquitos and sleep on top of your bivy. For the coldest, windy nights use both. If you can afford a 2-layer eVENT bivy from Ron at mountainlaureldesigns.com, this will keep the total weight down to 23oz., which is sill lighter than any of the eVENT bivys I am about to describe. Or, get a Montbell Breeze Dry-Tec bivy at a fraction of the cost and even lighter, but it's slightly less breathable and does not have mosquito netting option like Ron offers.
The closest stand-alone 3-layer eVENT bivy to the OR Adventure bivy is the Integral Designs eVENT Crysallis. It's got waist-length mesh and a flip top, but will be much more breathable and lighter. Unfortunately the flip-top design is not the best for humid conditions; you would feel like you are suffocating if you had to close it all the way, and you'd be pumping a great deal of moisture into your bivy from your breath–not a good idea in already humid conditions.
Unfortunately there are no eVENT bivys on the market that have waist length mesh and allow you to directly breathe out of the bivy when zipped up (by directly breathing I am referring to designs such as the ID South Col and Micro Bivy, with the opening facing your feet. It was amazing to me the difference in comfort I felt when trying out a Micro Bivy vs. a Crysallis; with the Micro I was able to cinch everything down nice ant tight and still be able to see outside and breathe fresh air. With the Crysallis, I was claustrophobic and only got traces of fresh air through the small breathing hole).