1."Have you tried sleeping with a hot water bottle (i.e. a Nalgene filled with boiling water stuffed into a thick sock and thrown in the foot of your bag)?"
Haven't tried to do this but I can't see a hot water bottle being hot 4 5 or 6 hours into my sleep to help keep me warm.
2."Your underlayers are not dry (and clean)"
I 'clean up; as soon as I enter camp either lake swim or if no lake a washcloth wipedown. The underlays as all other sleeping gear I have is well looked after for dryness, always carried in a packliner not to let it get wet!
3."Try adding olive oil or have a very fat loaded hot chocolate before you go to sleep"`
Yep, will do! Generally speaking I am in bed about and hour or so after dinner.
4."Is your TT Rainbow drafty at all?"
Yes it is but I cannot feel the cold seeping into the sleepingbag, I have other clothing to cover face if that were to bother me.
5."When do you get cold? Immediately? After a couple hours? Just before dawn?"
I'd say I can easily fall asleep so that is no issue. After a few hours it starts and I am in and out of sleep till dawn.
6."Is your bag too tight I wonder?"
No not at all, I am loving the space in the Ultralite. I went from Megalite to the Ultra. I am a tall (6'3") athletic slim build but not broad shoulders.
7."I'd start with the pad"
I am starting to think along this line also
8."are you overheating when you go to bed, causing you to sweat and get cold later?"
Deffinitely not.
9."How are you sleeping when you get cold? Are you on your back, stomach, side, etc?"
Not a stomach sleeper at all. I seem to feel that on my side I can fall back to sleep as I feel a little warmer (but only marginally). I am definitely coldest on my back but I prefer not to sleep on my back because it makes me snore and it also causes a collapsed throat making me wake up gasping for air.
10."shaking ALL the down to the top probably isn't a good idea especially if you move around"
I move 'in the' bag not with it. So the down is always on top and around the sides. I have experienced rolling with the bag and felt the cold seep in straight away but that is not the case for when I get woken with cold.
11."are you a guy or a girl? ", "Age?", "Fitness level?"
I am 38yr old fit (I race bicycles) guy. 6'3" tall athletic but slim build.
Thank you all for your input!! It seems to be pointing to the mat.