Extrem Textil has a separating, adjustable buckle for 10 mm webbing, but being so small, is kind of on the flimsy side. Not sure what I could safely use them for. Maybe attaching an inner to an outer tent canopy, but they do not work well on lace, only webbing. Very light, though, and would allow tightening the inner tent to the outer shell.
if you can come up to 12-13mm (.5"), you can get much beefier half inch ladderlocks from Quest and others. But they're non-separating.
Line-locs would do it, and come both separating and non, if you use cord instead of webbing.
The kitty clips are around 10mm-3/8", but are not adjustable.