Based on my experience, there are quite a few mills that can sil or PU coat goods throughout Asia. Although a lot of them have the capability, not all of them can do it to the same degree of quality. There is a ton of variance in coating consistency and hand feel (i.e. stiff, soft, etc). On top of that, there are environmental restrictions in place in some areas that limit the amount of sil used in the coating process. Regarding sil and PU mix, you can blend the two and that's what's done on both our 20D silnylon and 20Dx50D silpoly. Using a mix allows you to get better waterproofing and it also helps with the bias stretch some. You do have to make sure you can still use 100% silicone sealants though.
Agreed that apples to apples poly is lower strength than nylon. However, in applications such as a tarp or shelter, I don't think the strength difference is enough to really matter. If we were talking about a hammock, sure. The silpoly is getting out to more DIY folks and vendors now, so we'll have some good field testing to come. I can tell you that some of the new lower denier poly I'm testing looks promising. Bias stretch comparable to some of the better 30D nylon 6.6 USA made goods but significantly lower weight.