I have been carrying a two person bothy bag the last two winters on day hikes/XC skis/snow shoe walks. It is my light weight emergency "tent". I've also considered using it for lunch breaks during very cold and windy conditions. The only time it was deployed was for a simple test when two of us tried it very briefly for kicks and grins. That is my very wordy way of saying I have essentially no experience with it; it is accumulating lots of mileage, though!
I would feel a little guilty about totally deconstructing it for you but I will give you some hints about the design.
There are no handles, drawcords, tie-outs on the bothy proper; the stuff sack does have a cord and cord lock. Your posteriors sitting on the fabric seats serve as the anchors.
Mine has a built-in stuff sack with mosquito netting or no-seeum on the bottom. After some thought I can see that having the tube-shaped sack with no-seeum on the end is probably a good design feature in that as it sags it would keep out rain and snow and still provide some breathability. A simple patch of no see-um on the main wall would not be very weather proof (Duh!). Call this wart #1.
There is another wart (#2) pocket at the apex that admits two hiking or ski pole handles. I doubt the poles add much structure but they might prevent the sagging material from annoyingly obscuring your partner's face.
To be clear, the warts are just open-ended (on one end) stuff sacks sewed to the main shell.
If I were designing one I would start with these two pieces of information:
1) The length of your poles at an angle will help determine the height of your bothy.
2) Start your design at the bottom and fit the other panels to the bottom dimensions. The bottom of mine is, when stretched taut, a rectangle measuring about 18 X 60 inches. The rectangular opening is covered on both ends by a "seat" measuring about 9 X 18 inches; i.e., the bottom opening is reduced to about 18 X 42 inches.
My feeble thoughts only. I would like to hear other peoples' bothy experiences. Good luck with your project!