Well I am finished with my pack. My initial plan to use the frame, hipbelt, and shoulder straps from the Deuter Kid Comfort was a bust. Those 3 components were simply too heavy – I think around 28oz total.
So instead, I decided to copy the suspension design on my Exped Lightning 60 (which is currently the best pack I've ever used). I took the Deuter hipbelt and ripped out all the stitches. I then sewed in a thin piece of plastic into a layer of VX42 connected to the 3D mesh front:

From there, I sewed in horizontal and vertical straps to the hipbelt (to connect to the pack and stabilize the load). The top ladderloc is for the shoulder strap webbing to adjust the torso height. To hold the stay, I made a pocket out of 1.5'' webbing and VX42:

With the stay pocket made, I sewed all the components of the hipbelt back together. This required hand-turning my sewing machine, as the Deuter plastic on the hipbelt wings was very stiff:

With the hipbelt and shoulder straps done, I had the beginnings of a frame:

Here is how the center stay from the Exped Lightning 60 fits into the back pocket on the hipbelt:

I then sewed on all my compression straps and pockets etc onto the pack. For the main body, I used D40 (which actually cut very easily with an old titanium rotary cutting blade). For the extension collar and side pockets, I used X21RC (almost too stiff for the side pockets, IMO). D40 feels very tough, and I did not feel the need to reinforce any compression straps or daisy chains. For the top pocket of the stay, I used a layer of D40 folded over itself with some webbing inside. There is a small section of tent tube sewed in at the top to form the top horizontal bar (the load lifters connect just above this bar). The pack is roughly 39'' in circumference and 39'' tall – made big to handle my foam pad and lots of food or water. Somehow, one side pocket ended up an inch shorter than the other:

There's nothing on the inside of the pack, except for a little key pocket I made out of Argon Sil (weight = 4g):

I didn't have many seams to sew up the pack body. The D40 seemed prone to fraying, so I did a rolled hem after the main stitching line (also difficult for my machine to get through):

Here is the back of the completed pack:

And the front of the pack showing the hipbelt, stay, and shoulder straps (stay and shoulder straps are borrowed from my Exped Lightning 60):

This picture shows where the compression straps from the hipbelt connect to the pack. The horizontal ones are routed through/underneath the side pockets. The vertical ones go underneath the pack and connect to the bottom of the hipbelt:

At loads of 25lbs, the pack carries great. I would say it is equally comfortable, if not more so, than the Exped Lightning 60. At 33 lbs, the pack's comfort reaches a turning point and is perhaps only equal to the Lightning 60. Here is a picture of me wearing the pack with 33 lbs (yes, I have the torso length set too high here):

Unfortunately, with 37 lbs in the pack, the hipbelt begins to buckle and sag downwards. The Lightning 60 is definitely more comfortable at this weight. I think the plastic I used in the lumbar pad is simply too thin. Here it is with 37 lbs:

I experimented with the compression straps attached to the hipbelt. I first tried loosening them, thinking that maybe I had too much tension on them and they weren't letting the hipbelt get a good wrap. This made things much worse. I then tried tightening the bottom straps a lot. This helped things tremendously. It also shows how the hipbelt is deforming:

This then gave me the idea to try the pack without the stay anchored into the hipbelt. It actually worked very well. Here it is with the same 33 lbs:

No collapse or hipbelt buckling:

I think what is happening is that the CCF pad I have coiled inside creates a very rigid pack body. This rigid pack body then rests on the bottom compression straps, which transfer the load to my hipbelt. This makes me think the Paradox Unaweep's suspension concept is the way to go, since it acts in a somewhat similar manner (only with a frame to transfer the load to the bottom straps).
At this point, I am not certain what I will do with the pack. I could use the pack exclusively for sub-30lb loads, but I really don't want to be a multi-pack owner. I want one pack to handle all my backpacking needs.
I do not think I will continue pursuing the Exped Lightning 60's suspension design in MYOG packs. I will probably try to find some way to mirror the "hanging pack" design of the Paradox Unaweep, either by adding a new frame to my current pack and sewing or modifying a new hipbelt. Or by starting completely over with a new pack.
I think this pack does confirm that my problem with the Unaweep I used to own is that the straps on the hipbelt were sewn too far apart for my waist size (and that the frame is too big for smaller people).
Almost forgot. The finished pack weight with everything is 34.4 oz