After this last trip, my wife asked me “what’s included in base weight?” I have no idea where she heard the term, since I really don’t discuss this stuff with her, so she may have been doing some internet research.
After our previous Weminuche Wilderness trip she was complaining of neck pain, and when we were packing up to drive to the trailhead for this trip, she grabbed my pack to put it in the car, and I heard her mumble something about how light it was. So she may be ready to make some compromises with her gear. I will have to resist the urge to mansplain.