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    James holden
    BPL Member

    @bearbreeder-2

    dont climb with whinners …theyll bring everyone down … dump em faster than paris hilton dumps BFs …

    at least in climbing, a lot of the whinners are virtual climbers much of the time IME … they read a book or two, go on a few forums, may do an occasional easy top rope climb … and when the time comes for the real stuff, they are slow, tired, and complain … go out and practice you skills often, rather than doing it on a keyboard, and youll be less likely to complain

    who knows … maybe its the same for walking ;)

    #1895650
    David Ure
    Member

    @familyguy

    Really? I mean, you couldn't re-type that list?

    ;)

    #1895654
    Diplomatic Mike
    Member

    @mikefaedundee

    Locale: Under a bush in Scotland

    Pain and suffering is something to be embraced.
    There is no finer feeling than pushing your body to the limits, and still be smiling.

    #1895658
    Sarah Kirkconnell
    BPL Member

    @sarbar

    Locale: Homesteading On An Island In The PNW

    Mike has obviously never experienced natural unmedicated childbirth.

    I can say that none of my hiking trips have ever been as painful as that. And no, I wasn't smiling. I pushed my body to the limit with my last child, born 5 months ago. I have had 3 children. I didn't smile with any of them. Nor did I laugh. I often don't smile as I hike up 4K of elevation gain. I didn't smile after doing my first 20+ mile day.

    We handle emotion differently – and pain as well. I have pushed my body to the limit – and ya know? It is OK to whine. Totally OK. And I can say that "embracing pain and suffering" is a load of horse poo. That is called "medication fail".

    #1895659
    Diplomatic Mike
    Member

    @mikefaedundee

    Locale: Under a bush in Scotland

    Totally disagree Sarah. I've run ultra-distance where my body couldn't take any more. But i still pushed on, despite hallucinating due to pain and sleep deprivation. And i loved it.
    I thought we were talking about trail issues, not other medical conditions? I now suffer from chronic pain due to surgery that went wrong, but that isn't what is being discussed. And dealing with chronic pain is the hardest thing i've ever had to deal with.

    #1895662
    jscott
    BPL Member

    @book

    Locale: Northern California

    My neighbor once told me, "no pain..no pain!" and the light went on. Wear and tear on the joints for us old guys is what gets ya. Muscle soreness, bad weather, fatigue: who cares? That's easy. Meanwhile, I want my ibuprofen!

    #1895664
    Sarah Kirkconnell
    BPL Member

    @sarbar

    Locale: Homesteading On An Island In The PNW

    I don't think you got my point. And that is OK.

    #1895668
    Diplomatic Mike
    Member

    @mikefaedundee

    Locale: Under a bush in Scotland

    Sorry if i picked you up wrong Sarah. A language seperated by an ocean? :-)

    #1895672
    peter vacco
    Member

    @fluffinreach-com

    Locale: no. california

    i hurt , therefore i am.

    #1895684
    BlackHatGuy
    Spectator

    @sleeping

    Locale: The Cascades

    "But i still pushed on, despite hallucinating due to pain and sleep deprivation."

    Who knew you could hallucinate so inexpensively! I paid good money for my hallucinations!

    A buddy and I were riding around the south island of New Zealand some years back. For nine days we rode into a headwind. Didn't matter which direction we traveled, we were always riding into a fairly strong headwind. Not fun with loaded touring bikes – especially before I knew or cared about lightweight gear (my tent weighed 7 pounds!). As we approached Queensland, it started to rain. Hard. We hunkered down on our bikes with frowns on our faces.

    But we were in New Zealand, darnit! So suddenly, at the top of my lungs (no kidding), I started singing 'Oh What A Beautiful Morning.' Off key too. Soon we were cracking up and having a grand old time again, rain and wind regardless.

    I agree with someone up above (no, not THAT up above, earlier in the thread) who said it's often a matter of attitude. Often (not always) things suck until you decide they don't. And then they simply don't anymore. Doesn't mean the pain goes away, it just means you've decided the pain won't be joined by misery. Which really ticks pain off – it hates it when you smile right into its red, puffy face. I like making pain mad. It fulfills me.

    #1895689
    Diplomatic Mike
    Member

    @mikefaedundee

    Locale: Under a bush in Scotland

    I totally get your point, Doug.
    When you laugh at pain, it loses it's hold over you.

    We get good 'shrooms in Scotland. ;-)

    #1895706
    Miguel Arboleda
    BPL Member

    @butuki

    Locale: Kanto Plain, Japan

    I don't think you got my point. And that is OK.

    Well, Sarah, it is a bit unfair to compare childbirth to endeavoring to make an effort to not spoil it for others on a hiking trip… something completely voluntary and knowingly and supposedly done for pleasure. And we're not talking about falling off a cliff and snapping your collarbone… we're just talking grinning and bearing simple discomfort. If it became something like childbirth of course it would be all right to complain. Hiking along a trail in pouring rain and going on and on about how uncomfortable the rain is or how tiring the climb is or how many mosquitoes there are, well, that is just simply and unnecessarily annoying. It spoils it for everyone. Such things happen when you go to the mountains. And you knew it before you left the house. So shut up and at least try to let the others enjoy what everyone came for. If you start giving birth to a child during the hike… well, hopefully the others know how to deal with it… and can forget about the trip altogether.

    #1895899
    Curry
    BPL Member

    @veganaloha

    Locale: USA

    "What are you going to do, bleed on me?"

    #1895900
    Curry
    BPL Member

    @veganaloha

    Locale: USA

    "i hurt, therfore i am."

    Welcome to "50 Shades of Grey."

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